One in first picture is OEM. 2nd one looks like a newer replacement. I'd bet the OEM coil is the bad one. The coils can look differently, that's fine--as long as they work! Sorry, I have no info on specs.
You're very, very correct in using the OEM Bosch plugs. Don't use any other type of plug in that engine. Also, go to autozone and get codes pulled for free to find exact data on which cylinder(s) have issues. If you're not using the OEM plugs, I'd replace them first. The coils might be fine already!
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