What pads comes with your car depends on the factory options. The factory will put in the correct pads to correct the ride height for the different options available.
The best way to decide which pads you want to run is to bring it to a shop like tws, since you are in socal, and have them work with you in swapping the pads in and out till you get what you are trying to achieve.
Mike, aka dr.amg, brabus on a budget, did that as well. There can only be so much internet guessing. but the real way is just to start swapping them out and drive around the block till it gets to the point where you are fine with the setup.
Best of luck.