Hi,welcome to the club!,very sory to here of your loss.
you have obtained a great 202
sounds like faulty wiring etc,not sure about the headlights switch effecting the tacho,my wiring diagrams show no relation at all,maybe theres water present somwhere...im sure someone on the forum will be able to help.
also wouldnt it be 12.3 on and 13.8 off?